Whose Love is the Best in the World?

Have you ever thought ,what is the most common thing that every single person on this earth carries with himself all the time , from his birth till death ??  yes, its Love and just Love. 

Everyone grows up with this four letter word. The word in itself  has a great mesmerizing feeling. What actually Love is ? Love is an intense feeling of deep affection someone feel towards the other person. It's all Love for which this world was created and for which we struggle in our daily lives and for which we are ready to give up everything, even our lives. Thus everything and everywhere, this world has an element of Love. 

Everyone has his own Love experience and definition. But, have you ever asked yourself which Love is the best in the world for you ?? For every single person the answer will be different. But for me, its simply the Love of  small children  for their parents. Yes, it is actually the most UNCONDITIONAL and the PUREST love on earth. 

We always talk about parents love for their children and how children should respect and love their parents. But we never talk about this miraculous Love that we have been gifted by our Lord. 

I, as a mother of three, feel so blessed and thankful everytime when I see my children. All of you will agree that a mother's love for her children is unconditional . But as a mother ,when I compare MY LOVE with my CHILDREN'S LOVE for ME, I literally give up. Their Love for me is so PURE and unconditional that my love feels so low in front of theirs.

I feel, we as mothers or parents love our children

with conditions. Like:

When they are calm and quiet, we love them more. 

When they listen to what we say them and do accordingly, then we are happy and show more love.

When they don't mess up house , we are very pleased.

When they have dierrhea, we are upset and many times rude and harsh while cleaning them up multiple times.

Potty training is a nightmare for us.

When they are freaky, stubborn, irritating we scold them badly, at times even slap them.

But have you ever given it a thought that what do we get in return of our such attitude?? 

It's Love and only Love that we get in return from them. Whether they are in pain, whether they are crying, whether they find us angry on them, whether they get punishment from us, all in return they give us Love. 

"Things may seem crazy right now.. but some day you are going to miss this"

Look deep into their eyes filled with tears while crying, you will still find Love for us.

I am sometimes clueless that what kind of Heart Lord has created in them, so innocent and so soft.

When I am sad or upset or cry, it's my children who feel my pain the most. They are happy when I am happy, they are sad when I am sad. There is a special connection of their heart with mine.

 When I get angry with my children and scold them very badly and they start crying. I say nothing and just stretch my arms and the very next moment their pain vanishes away, their tears convert into smiles and they forget everything in seconds and come and hug me.

When they hold my face with their little hands, stare me with their twinkling eyes with affection, hug me tightly, sleep on me , kick me while in a deep sleep, saying mama you are the best, we love you, kissing me on every inch of my face, hands, feet ... It's all their Love that revolves around me. I am the center of their attention. I am their Whole World.

"The moment he wakes up from a nap. Just a gummy mouth, no teeth, just a big smile, happy that you are alive and you are just looking at him. That's probably the most magical."

                 Jessica biel

And this feeling gives me so much happiness and thankfulness that I can't write in words.

But the very next moment when I see them growing up and thinking of them distancing from me. I get into tears. Enjoy every bit of your small children's tantrums and their smiles. Time flies and you will never know how quickly they will grow up and distance from you.

When they will grow up they will still love us, but that love will be very different. You will miss their taking out things from drawers, cabinets, fridge, their chubby cheeks, their innocent and loud smile, their tiny hands and feet, and much more. Enjoy their Love for you because their love for us is the best and purest in the whole world.

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